How to Say Good-Bye
Debra Wertheimer, MD
(3 tape series)

In this series, Dr. Wertheimer works with family, caregivers and professional staff to help them understand the process of dying and the unpredictability of this final journey.

Being an Adult Child
Order# ELC 811 (VHS)
In this program, it becomes very clear how our society does not prepare adult children to understand the process of dying and how to say goodbye to a parent in the final months and weeks. Dr. Wertheimer works with family members providing insights to make this emotional period a positive time to share love.
This program is essential for hospice, excellent for nursing home staff to share with family members and important viewing for nursing home staff to develop empathy as family members prepare to say good bye to a parent.
Interviews  
24 minutes
title price: $150; $75 rental

Being a Professional Caregiver
Order# ELC812 (VHS)
This program covers topics including: accepting death as the final stage of life; accepting families’ decisions on treatment or treatment limitations; knowing how to talk to a person who is terminally ill; and knowing how to facilitate conversations between patients and families. 
Interviews 
24 minutes
title price: $150; $75 rental

Saying Goodbye
Order# ELC 813 (VHS)
Dr. Wertheimer helps family members identify ways in which they can contribute to good endings and provides supportive guidelines on how to say good-bye.
Interviews 
24 minutes
title price: $150; $75 rental

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Program titles

End of Life Decisions and Concerns:
The Resident’s Perspective

 Order# RP109
» Description
Comfort Care in Long-Term Care
(3 DVD series)
 Comfort Care for Residents Receiving
      Life Prolonging Therapies

 Order# ELC800
 Comfort Care for Residents Receiving
      Hospice in LTC

 Order# ELC801
 Witholding Artificial Nutrition and Hydration
 Order# ELC802
» Descriptions and video clip
A Conspiracy of Silence:
Helping the Patient and Family
to Live with Terminal Illness

 Order# ELC804
» Description and video clip
Harriett's People
 Order# ELC805
» Description and video clip
Advance Directives and the Elderly: Making Decisions About Treatment Limitations
 Order# ELC 806
» Description
Advance Directives:
CPR in Nursing Homes

 Order# ELC807
» Description
Understanding Life Plans
 Order# ELC 808
» Description
Rose and Zelda
 Order# ELC 809
» Description
Conversations at Bayview Circle
 Order# ELC810
» Description
How to Say Good-Bye
(3 tape series)
 Being an Adult Child
 Order# ELC 811
 Being a Professional Caregiver
 Order# ELC812
 Saying Goodbye
 Order# ELC 813
Caring for Patients with
Late Stage Dementia

 Order# AD210
» Description and video clip
Marge and Walter –
The Family Caregiver

 Order# CE627
» Description
Comfort Measures at the End of Life
 Order# ELC803
» Description